I have also counseled and received letters from men who are devastated when they discover that their wives are pregnant with someone else's child, or discover after the child is born, that it is not his. And I have counseled and received letters from the lovers, who know the child is theirs and are tormented by a desire to become involved in their child's life as it is growing up. MaxCargo wrote:You're in a though situation. You have said you and your wife already have already son. I assume he's of your own. In this situation you and your wife should, without a question, do what is best for the child you both already have. Certainly you don't want your son getting exposed to the rumours and hatred from other people including family and friends, if this shouldn't be your child that your wife is pregnant with. Obviously, it would be very clear if it's not yours. It could get very ugly, especially for your son. He fingers me, rubbing my clit, turning me into a squirming little mess. I’m glad to have found such a wonderful, lewd partner so early in my life. I’d never expected said partner to be my father, but who cares? Nobody else knows. I’d also never expected to have children so early on, but that’s great, too. I’ll get to see them grow up, but still be fairly young myself! I’ll be able to keep up with them for ages, too. Maybe they’ll want an older guy to breed them, too… I can’t imagine being a grandma!

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Quite frankly, even though it may not be what you want, or what I would advise, I think your husband has a right to divorce you. And in some cases I've witnessed, when a wife revealed infidelity, her husband has done just that — he divorced her. It doesn't happen very often, but it happens. It sounds as if you were under pressure from your very difficult circumstances, yet you were also experiencing the instinctive feelings to protect and nurture your pregnancy very strongly. There was a split between your head and your heart – and now your heart is feeling all the pain of your decision. It’s impossible just to put it behind you. What you need now is time and space to express, work through and resolve these deeper feelings and you can do that by visiting your nearest centre to see someone who understands and who can help you through recovery. There is hope – please get in touch as soon as you can. It actually says affairs, but it’s not an affair. It’s consensual from the husband, so it’s not an affair. As he keeps thrusting… I tell him to pull out. I tell him to stop. I tell him that I can’t get pregnant again, and he needs to pull out! He merely ignores me and pushes me down harder, just like I wanted. I half-heartedly act like I don’t want it, sometimes, since I know Daddy likes that. If I actually want to stop, we’ve got a safe word/phrase. He says that before we got married, he had numerous girlfriends, and he claims that 'nearly all of them' had multiple orgasms.

Q. I am an unmarried 30-year-old man. Last month, I went on a business trip to London, England, and on my last evening there, some English pals took me to what they called a 'massage parlour .'I am 35, my husband is 37 and we have been married 12 years. We have three children, 9, 7 and 2. I love my husband, and don't want my marriage to end. But I am afraid that once he knows the truth, it will be all over for us. But the Mirena 'intra-uterine system' (IUS) is different, because it contains a special hormone. The effect of that is to lessen the volume of blood loss, and often shorten the period as well. Also, period pain may be reduced. Editor’s note: Thanks for sharing your story with us…What you are feeling is not uncommon after an abortion – you are not alone. Many women feel the same regret, sense of loss and guilt as you do. They often feel tearful and inconsolable, and have a great desire to replace the lost pregnancy with another one. It’s even more difficult for you in that not only is it something you didn’t want to do, but it is also a secret and you are carrying the burden of that more or less alone. Lillian was fairly certain of her next ovulation date, and so we arranged to meet over a two day period at a hotel in their city. I didn’t mind staying overnight as I enjoy traveling, even if it’s only a short distance.